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I'm worried about my friend Zach

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:19 am
by UnderclassHeroine
OKay, my friend Zach..is like 17 and my mom doesn't like me hanging out with him because she walked in with me having my arms around him..and well his mom is making him find a place to stay and everything...and see I didn't find this weird, I found it wrong and everything, but see he's still in school and everything and he told me on how his mom didn't like him. Well Friday, I lifted up his shirt to give him a wedgie..well to see what I was grabbing at and I saw the big ass red mark on his back...and then later on a scar on his side. I want to ask him how it happened, but I didn't think it was any of my business, but I'm a bit worried because my friend said he might be getting abused and I should ask about it..but I don't feel like being nosy...what should I do?

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 1:56 pm
by Tiny *[Banned]*
Just ask him and maybe before you ask him say something like sorry for being nosy or asomething like that.That wasnt very helpful.

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 3:29 pm
by Claudia
Just ask.If youre friends,hell be happy that you ask an that he can tell someone.

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 8:17 pm
by Phili
The reason why people are continuously abused is that no one steps in. You have to ask him.

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 8:47 pm
by MissWhibley
the key to all problems is: talk!
u musk talk with him, ask him and tell him whats on ur mind.

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:01 pm
by V
Phili wrote:The reason why people are continuously abused is that no one steps in. You have to ask him.

Posted: Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:52 pm
by charle22
ask ask ask ask ask

Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 7:55 am
by Jon Nolan
I agree with the others, ask him.

Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 6:29 pm
by UnderclassHeroine
I'll ask him tomorrow.....if i get the guts.

Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 6:42 pm
by Tiny *[Banned]*
xMichellex wrote:I'll ask him tomorrow.....if i get the guts.
Just do it.Whats the worst that can happen?

Posted: Wed Jun 27, 2007 10:14 pm
by grandpa
ask him...and make sure he gets help
and tell your mom to fuck off...thats a fucking stupid reason not to like someone

Posted: Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:41 pm
by Zam
K... I usually get abused of too.. at home.... You should talk to him.. It just gets worse if you don't, believe me.
I started talking to my parents about it after I spoke to my teacher about it. They noticed I was pretty depressive lately and someone had spilt the fact that I had been saying suicidal stuff.... so yeah...
Talk to him.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 3:35 am
by Mr. Penguin
V wrote:
Phili wrote:The reason why people are continuously abused is that no one steps in. You have to ask him.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 2:28 pm
by UnderclassHeroine
Well I was going to ask, but it slipped my mind because we kind of had a few friends up there, stalked some people for fun, got pissed off at Lance, and I kissed Zach twice on the cheek. One to try and get my stuff back and another time for a picture. I hate the new remodeled stores they tell us to leave or buy something if we've been in there like two or more times. I was like STFU I"M NOT SHOPPING FROM YOU ANYMORE! -growls- Rude people...

And after I left I still didn't remember because I went to OutBack and the bus boy told me happy birthday twice(And I never told him anything about my birthday) and talked to me a little bit even though he wasn't working and he looked like a wannabe gangster. Oh well...I just now remembered and feel like an idiot.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 4:03 pm
by Tiny *[Banned]*
xMichellex wrote:Well I was going to ask, but it slipped my mind because we kind of had a few friends up there, stalked some people for fun, got pissed off at Lance, and I kissed Zach twice on the cheek. One to try and get my stuff back and another time for a picture. I hate the new remodeled stores they tell us to leave or buy something if we've been in there like two or more times. I was like STFU I"M NOT SHOPPING FROM YOU ANYMORE! -growls- Rude people...

And after I left I still didn't remember because I went to OutBack and the bus boy told me happy birthday twice(And I never told him anything about my birthday) and talked to me a little bit even though he wasn't working and he looked like a wannabe gangster. Oh well...I just now remembered and feel like an idiot.
So are you two like dating or something?

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:25 pm
by UnderclassHeroine
No....I've kissed my friend Brian before...on the lips and cheek and licked his cheek before. But two of them were for a dare, but I would want to go out with him, he's pretty cool.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:29 pm
by Tiny *[Banned]*
xMichellex wrote:No....I've kissed my friend Brian before...on the lips and cheek and licked his cheek before. But two of them were for a dare, but I would want to go out with him, he's pretty cool.
Then ask him out.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:35 pm
by UnderclassHeroine
I would, but I'm too shy.

Posted: Fri Jun 29, 2007 11:59 pm
by Tiny *[Banned]*
xMichellex wrote:I would, but I'm too shy.
Just ask him out and who knows maybe he`ll say yes and dont be shy you cant live your life in fear. :wink:

Posted: Sat Jun 30, 2007 2:33 am
by Buttpt
yeah, you only live once (some say you don't) and what do you have to lose?
Besides...it's better than one day being sorry because you didn't ask him out.