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so i havent been to TNS in a couple months, just checking periodically for news but i really need to vent and ask a couple questions about, possibly, the dumbest thing i have ever done.

i lied about getting a bj from a girl that i almost had a relationship with over the summer, may not sound to bad but i kept on saying it was the truth for the longest time. i initially told the lie in mid july and told everyone it was the truth except for the one girl, obviously. so now i just feel bad and the girl found out about it and was reading my friend conversations that we had on what (didnt) go down and she knows and everythings fucked. now the girl, who was a fairly good friend, will never look at me the same again, all my class mates will think im the biggest idiot in the world and wont ever let it down and will always nag me about it. so i pretty much dont want to go to school for a little while to confront my mistakes but i have to and im gonna be like the school douchefuck.
i sent her a long ass email saying it was my mistake and that i shouldnt lie and im feel so shitty and im sorry, but thats obviously not good enough. other people that know will ask me about it and im gonna have to say nothing went down but theyll say people told them about it and............................................... i give up talking for a while

help please

buy her a bunch of shit. and make a puiblic announcement saying ur sorry or suttin

You got to talk to her face to face if you ever want to have a chance at forgiveness. It takes a lot of courage to apologize like that after big mistakes, so she'll have to respect your bravery to admit your fault.

After everything I've been through, I find asking a girl out or saying sorry works the best through face to face confrontation instead of emails, text messages... etc.

You're a fucking moron. Why would you do that? That was a dick move, my friend. I don't know how you can even help yourself except to apologize and admit you don't deserve to be her friend anymore because of it. Dude... I am so sorry, but you're kinda fucked.

I guess all you can do is try to apologize to her... and cry. Girls love it when men cry for them
seriously, I don't know if that's true

There's life after school.

There's also death after school, but mostly life.

Kyle wrote:You're a fucking moron. Why would you do that? That was a dick move, my friend. I don't know how you can even help yourself except to apologize and admit you don't deserve to be her friend anymore because of it. Dude... I am so sorry, but you're kinda fucked.

thanks for the help, man

omfg that sucks soo much
u should definately apoligize to her as well as your friends for lying. Then you should figure out what the girl likes and buy it/take her out there as an apology. Have a puppydog face

sorry but if i were that girl i would never want to see your face again. why did you even lie?? you should just forget about apologizing to her. i dont think it'll work.

Apologise to the girl but accept you've fucked things with her royally, she probablly feels more shit than you do and you cna bug her all you want but your probablly the last person she wants to see of hear from right now.

As for school, go. The only way you can make things any worse is by hiding, accept what you've done and live with it, people will respect you more for being there than just running away.

You did a really stupid thing but people do stuipd things beleive me this is the first of many dumb lies you'll tell in your life. Just gotta bite down and deal with it.

hardcoresum41fan wrote:omfg that sucks soo much
u should definately apoligize to her as well as your friends for lying. Then you should figure out what the girl likes and buy it/take her out there as an apology. Have a puppydog face

Woah! Looks just like my dog:

(4 months ago)

you fucking deserve everything d she does or will do to you be glad that i'm not that girl cos you wouldn't be able to have kids

this calls for...

budgie wrote:this calls for...

Hawthorne Heights?

Kyle wrote:

budgie wrote:this calls for...

Hawthorne Heights?

lmfao!

this threads actually really amusing, its cheered my day up being ill

wow, did you think she wouldnt find out after you told everyone else??

V wrote:Woah! Looks just like my dog:

(4 months ago)

Omgz, that's me!

i didn't read anything in this topic.

I'M TEH DUMBEST THING IN THE WORLD

Gibsum 41 wrote:

V wrote:Woah! Looks just like my dog:

(4 months ago)

Omgz, that's me!

its sooo cute

well you can only learn from this. DON"T KISS AND TELL. ... or blow and tell.