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[updated] im moving on...
Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 11:13 pm
by budgie
im so depressed today.
theres this girl who ive been wanting to go with so badly for months.
there was a party last night - i thought it was my perfect opportunity.
then, i saw her with some goofy looking dude. i died a little inside.
i seriously thought she was absolutely perfect. so much chemistry between us apparently meant nothing...
as you might guess, this is a massive blow to my self-esteem.
im trying to make myself feel better all day. my favourite film just happens to be on tv at this moment.
hopefuly things will begin to look up...
that was 2 1/2 months ago.
things are now finally starting to look up for me
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sat May 10, 2008 11:44 pm
by [stoked-cow]
ah dude that sucks
i know how you feel, my ex flirted with me loads. i asked her out kinda, she didnt reply. that thursday she starts dating one of my best friends. suprisingly im not bothered by it. i feel like that was a elliot off scrubs story.
just tell her how you feel man. maybe she doesnt know, or wants to make you say it?
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 12:39 am
by budgie
[stoked-cow] wrote:ah dude that sucks
i know how you feel, my ex flirted with me loads. i asked her out kinda, she didnt reply. that thursday she starts dating one of my best friends. suprisingly im not bothered by it. i feel like that was a elliot off scrubs story.
just tell her how you feel man. maybe she doesnt know, or wants to make you say it?
thanks.
thats kind of a problem though
i get so nervous when talking to her. yesterday i felt dizzy just standing beside her.
i think im gonna find out who this dude is. if it was just a one night thing, i still might be able to win her over.
but, school is technically over - i wont be able to see her until september. and things could get much worse by then...
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:39 am
by Gibsum 41
sorry man.
yea, just try to talk to her. if you get her phone or MSN or anything you can talk to her all summer long. i think that if she learned that you felt that way when you saw her with that other dude she'd feel really special.
just give it a shot and if it doesn't work out there'll be more girls that will feel as perfect as her.
lol, im listening to With Me right now. ironic
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 2:18 am
by budgie
fuck! i just happened to stumble across her bebo there now.
i havent a chance. shes had a boyfriend for over a year...
fuck! i cant believe i was so naive...
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 3:20 am
by wiggs1441
That sucks...
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 6:37 am
by Pedro
wiggs1441 wrote:That sucks...
... a lot
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 11:26 am
by Druska
dude I'm sorry I know how you are feeling cuz I'm feeling the same way dunno what to say
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 12:32 pm
by ToMaTaN
sorry that you're in a sucky situation man,
this girl that i like, we flirted for ages, and i was like "score!", then we went out, got off, and it was awesome.
but she didn't mention it after! we still flirt, but she doesn't give any sign as to whether that was a drunken mistake, a one-off or something she wanted...ARGH!
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 1:18 pm
by Peterr
Listen to the The Ataris
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 3:24 pm
by budgie
thanks for all the support.
im just gonna try and move on...
i still hope we could be friends though. she is really an amazing person.
it might not be a problem - as soon as i know that a girl is taken, im no longer attracted to her
ToMaTaN wrote:sorry that you're in a sucky situation man,
this girl that i like, we flirted for ages, and i was like "score!", then we went out, got off, and it was awesome.
but she didn't mention it after! we still flirt, but she doesn't give any sign as to whether that was a drunken mistake, a one-off or something she wanted...ARGH!
that happened to me with a different girl.
we never talked to each other for ages afterwards.
but recently we've become friendly again. though i dont find her attractive anymore (shes got a boyfriend now, too)
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 4:56 am
by withchappedlips
I know how you feel.
I always make the mistake of liking a girl that has a boyfriend, or doesn't like having boyfriends and just wants to hook up, or just pretends to like me.
I made a blog about what happened with this one girl, you are welcome to read it if you want to know MY current situation.
Just find another girl and make sure she's single!
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Sun Jun 01, 2008 1:41 pm
by budgie
i will try to find someone else and just forget about this girl...
as much as i enjoy being single i cant help wanting a relationship again...
i dunno how i will react when i see her. i havent seen her since that night.
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:23 pm
by Summie41ie
its okay dude probly wasnt that cool anyways
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:25 pm
by Peterr
another great bump
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:57 pm
by budgie
i saw her the other day for about a second.
i think any feelings i had for her are pretty much gone.
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Mon Jun 16, 2008 11:58 pm
by Gibsum 41
bungie wrote:i saw her the other day for about a second.
i think any feelings i had for her are pretty much gone.
well that's good, right?
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 9:29 am
by I'm A Cunt [*banned*]
sorry man
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 9:47 am
by Boni
See what happens in time
Re: hate to talk about it but...
Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 11:16 am
by budgie
Gibsum 41 wrote:bungie wrote:i saw her the other day for about a second.
i think any feelings i had for her are pretty much gone.
well that's good, right?
yeah.