Kurt41 wrote:So are you ready to apologise to me for chucking a tantrum like a fucking 5 year old when I was super polite and didn't single you out (which you then did to me) and was actually.. CORRECT? You're supposed to be a moderator.. you acted like someone who should be instantly banned. I've JUST made an account this week, and gave some useful insight (which Deryck confirmed was correct anyway) and you absolutely tore my fucking head off. Band forums are a place to speculate and speak your mind/opinion. Is this the way I'll always be spoken to? Cause if it is, how depressing. I won't be posting anything else. Why don't you fucking relax a bit and you might actually get some more users signing up/coming online on here, instead of people too scared to type anything in case they're 'wrong'.
Whoa whoa whoa! Timeout!
First off, clever way to call for an apology by burning me to the ground.
It didn't feel polite NOT to single me out, quite the opposite. I felt offended since you twisted my words and ignored my name. That's why I felt the need to correct what I said. But how was I supposed to reply to you by not singling you out? Of course I'm biased to say, but I think if you quoted me right (or didn't quote me at all) we might have got a healthy debate.
The latter part of my post wasn't (meant to be) a direct response to you, more like explaining in detail why I thought what Cone meant. I admit that your not-quoting-me-right post affected my tone, but the real meaning was to explain my view and to ask you to do the same (which, of course, is pointless now).
You're right, everyone is entitled to voice their opinions, that's what a forum is for, right? I'm sorry that my post scared you (or anyone else) to voice yours (/theirs). Not everyone thinks the same way, and that can lead to arguments. Arguments are good as long as it doesn't include personal offenses, which I didn't do, although I admit it might have been seen that way. The point of your response however was clearly an insult towards me, but I don't mind since you felt offended, just like I did.
I didn't mean to offend anyone, sorry that I did. But judging the tone and the coarse language of your last post, I think I'm not the only one who needs to relax a bit.
Like I said, you're entitled to your opinion and I respect that. But judging me as a person by that one single post is not fair. If you had spent more time here, you'd know I'm not here to start fights and scare the shit out of everyone. For years I've been working my ass off to promote the band and this website, so I'd be happy to hear your ideas how to do it better.
Yes, I'm a moderator here, and I'd like to think I've deserved that rank. But I don't want to be treated any differently than a regular member here. We're all Skumfuks, we're all fans of this great band, some of us just keep this site up and running. I'm doing this for all of us, so if you think I'm a wrong person to be a mod, fair enough, but don't make the decision judging by only this one single post.
As a tongue-in-a-cheek comment, you clearly haven't been here for long if my post is enough to ban someone instantly.
Again, sorry everyone!