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Okay, so in school there's this one class, PDP, and it's the only classes where students from different programs are combined. there's five levels, and us audio guys are currently in level 3 with a larger number of 3D animation students. we only have class once a week, on wednesday.

anyways, thats the backstory. cutting to the chase, there's this girl in class who is really cute (lets call her Rita) and i want to ask her out. but i want to ask you guys what you think of the situation. what do i mean? read on.

so the first 2 weeks we had class i never really tried to talk to her or whatever, but the third week each of us had to do a presentation about a "successful achievement". i brought in my guitar and played a little bit, because my achievement was teaching myself how to play guitar. after the presentation when we were working on assignments and Rita walked by me and complimented me on my guitar skills. i was mentally flustered and didn't know what to say, and honestly can't really remember what i said, all i know is that i didn't talk to her for long. i probably could have spoke more and made a better impression, but i think i played it cool.

the next week (aka last week), the 3D gamers were handing out some survey sheets that they made for another class. after i filled one from another student with ridiculous answers, i jokingly asked for another one. Rita sweetly handed me her and i joked with her for a minute or so. again, i filled the survey out with retarded answers and handed it back to her. (example i filled in the name Raymond, age 54) she looked through it a little bit and laughed. i wanted to talk with her again semi-privately but class was over fast and i never got a chance to flirt with her more, but i like to think that when she read my survey she laughed and thought of me a little bit. ridiculous, maybe.

so afterwards i thought about adding her to my facebook friends, but i didn't really want to jump the gun or seem creepy. so i waited until i saw that a couple of my friends in the audio program had befriended her. she added me back within the day, then i saw her profile and noticed her birthday. She was born in 1986, while i was born in 1992. That means she is 25, and i just turned 19. i've been confused as to what i should do; should i still try to ask her out, do you think she would reject me just because im 6 years younger? how can i convince her, if she says she's not sure? whats the best course of action. Also, females of TNS (older ones lol, and by "older" i don't mean that you're crazy old ladys, just .... are there any females here that are over 22 year old?) would you consider going out with a guy 6 years younger than you?

ask her out, you don't need any advice from any women here, cause as one woman would date a younger guy, the other one just wouldn't, there is just one way to find out, and the best will be when you find it out by your actions, not by actions of one of your classmates ...

Most girls I know like younger guys once they get into their 20's. When they're teenagers they all tend to go for the older dudes, but I've seen a heap of "older" girls date guys your age. To be honest, once you're over 18 and it's no longer jailbait kinda territory, most people will date someone like 5 years older or younger.

Just ask her what she's doing for lunch or something, and if she wants to eat with you...not like a proper date or anything, but alone time where you guys will get to talk a bit more. Also, do it before your friends do lolol

I don't know mate, right now i wouldn't dat a guy younger than me, but what tyler said is true, once you reach the 19/20 border the gae ain't that important, you see we girls are( usually) more mature than most guys our age during our teen years, that's why we don't usually date younger guys

Just do it, believe me it's much better than it eating at your mind for months (and in some cases years), whatever the outcome, it is better to know now

Yeah, once you're past the age of 18, then the whole "age is just a number" thing kind of holds true (ie. Demi & Ashton, Hugh Hefner & Whatever Playboy Bunny he's with these days). It's like this girl once said to me when I was 20 and she was 22, "you can't help who you like." So if she likes you enough, I'm sure she'll look past the age.

Jeremy Kill wrote:Yeah, once you're past the age of 18, then the whole "age is just a number" thing kind of holds true (ie. Demi & Ashton, Hugh Hefner & Whatever Playboy Bunny he's with these days). It's like this girl once said to me when I was 20 and she was 22, "you can't help who you like." So if she likes you enough, I'm sure she'll look past the age.

well, you're forgetting one thing, and it is that none of the playboy bunnies really wanted Hugh as their partner, they just needed fame and money ...

also, I'm still not sure if gayshton hasn't used DM to get fame as well, ya know, acting like a good husband while fucking young chicks secretly, and only now it got revealed ...

but other than that what you're saying is true

I've got older gf, I'm with her for almost 5 months now. Go for it.

my mother was in 8th grade when my father was in 1st grade

good news: we were put in the same group for a project for the next four weeks, bad news; i can't flirt at all. im so awkward! i can talk to girls who i know i won't ask out just fine, when i have an interest in a girl i just can't seem to say anything without feeling like an idiot afterwards.

2712 wrote:good news: we were put in the same group for a project for the next four weeks, bad news; i can't flirt at all. im so awkward! i can talk to girls who i know i won't ask out just fine, when i have an interest in a girl i just can't seem to say anything without feeling like an idiot afterwards.

yup i know how you feel

2712 wrote:good news: we were put in the same group for a project for the next four weeks, bad news; i can't flirt at all. im so awkward! i can talk to girls who i know i won't ask out just fine, when i have an interest in a girl i just can't seem to say anything without feeling like an idiot afterwards.

well at least you got lucky enough to be put in the same group eh? just relax when ur around her. play it cool . If ur nervous- dont show it....cause if u do, she's gonna get shy too. And then its just awkward. So- just think. You got this. I believe in you man!!!

My (now ex) gf was older, wasn't a problem!

cladam41 wrote:

2712 wrote:good news: we were put in the same group for a project for the next four weeks, bad news; i can't flirt at all. im so awkward! i can talk to girls who i know i won't ask out just fine, when i have an interest in a girl i just can't seem to say anything without feeling like an idiot afterwards.

well at least you got lucky enough to be put in the same group eh? just relax when ur around her. play it cool . If ur nervous- dont show it....cause if u do, she's gonna get shy too. And then its just awkward. So- just think. You got this. I believe in you man!!!

Yep, I have the exact same problem, just do what I do and act all blase and be in control of the conversation, make things that wouldn't normally be funny seem hilarious by the way you say it, take an interest and get to know her more and drop he little compliments about various things then before you know it (hopefully) you'll be her little toyboy Just don't fall into the friend zone All this coming from an eternally single dude, but it seems like good advice (I think)

My grandparents have a 10 year difference in their age, lol hehehe..

SickofEveryone wrote:My grandparents have a 10 year difference in their age, lol hehehe..

That's like one of us going out with a six year old
Just thought I'd chuck that in there...

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:

SickofEveryone wrote:My grandparents have a 10 year difference in their age, lol hehehe..

That's like one of us going out with a six year old
Just thought I'd chuck that in there...

4 year olds got some nicce curves

cladam41 wrote:

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:

SickofEveryone wrote:My grandparents have a 10 year difference in their age, lol hehehe..

That's like one of us going out with a six year old
Just thought I'd chuck that in there...

4 year olds got some nicce curves

Well I suppose if there's grass on the pitch you play ball, unfortunately for you there is no grass on her pitch

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:

cladam41 wrote:

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:

SickofEveryone wrote:My grandparents have a 10 year difference in their age, lol hehehe..

That's like one of us going out with a six year old
Just thought I'd chuck that in there...

4 year olds got some nicce curves

Well I suppose if there's grass on the pitch you play ball, unfortunately for you there is no grass on her pitch

that made no sense at all....i really didnt get it. haha......?

awks

cladam41 wrote:

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:

cladam41 wrote:

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:

SickofEveryone wrote:My grandparents have a 10 year difference in their age, lol hehehe..

That's like one of us going out with a six year old
Just thought I'd chuck that in there...

4 year olds got some nicce curves

Well I suppose if there's grass on the pitch you play ball, unfortunately for you there is no grass on her pitch

that made no sense at all....i really didnt get it. haha......?

awks

You may get it if you've seen the inbetweeners?

Edit: Basically, the grass on the pitch represents the presence of females and the 'playing ball' is presumably self explanatory, the part about there being no grass on her pitch means that she's young and so has no pubes.
Wow explaining it like that just completely killed it
Wow