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i ruined someones life and i cant live with myself. i never liked a girl as much as i liked her and because i lied she feels like she is worthless and will never be able to date another guy for the rest of her life. i dont want her to like me again i just dont want her to suffer. how do i get past this?

she'll be over this in like 2 weeks at the most.

you're not important enough to anyone to ruin their lives.

Sorry, but its the truth.

CIRCUITzach wrote:

ily <3

I'm sure she's just being a drama queen. Girlz ughhh
Like Charley said, she'll be over this in 2 weeks.

man up.

bobbyjames wrote:man up.

Seconded!

Everybody lies! I mean everybody lies. Those people that say they never lie? Guess what? They lied! Tell her to stop being such a whiney little bitch. Unless you lied about cheating on her then it's what you deserve.

Boni Boy Blue wrote:

bobbyjames wrote:man up.

Seconded!

Everybody lies! I mean everybody lies. Those people that say they never lie? Guess what? They lied! Tell her to stop being such a whiney little bitch. Unless you lied about cheating on her then it's what you deserve.

exactly
just tell her that love sucks

Your terms for ruining someone's life are very mild. I agree with everyone else, she's probably just being a drama queen.

All of the above. She's being melodramatic. I think most teenagers act that way anyway; whatever problem they have at the moment is the biggest thing ever to them. That's how I used to feel.

I think I've said this a million times on here, but fuck I'm glad I'm not a teenager anymore.

I don't feel obligated to post in here because I'm a girl..
but, i agree with everyone else.
i'm sure she's just exaggerating a little bit.
you'll be just fine. :)

Just ignore him, he always is.

bobbyjames wrote:I think I've said this a million times on here, but fuck I'm glad I'm not a teenager anymore.

im twenteen soon

no wait...

I love girls.

I'd like to agree with the others but from a girls point of view, it is possible what she's saying but I highly doubt it. Well I think it would take a lot to make her say those things. I had a pretty bad experience with a guy about 5 years ago (basically everything I knew about him was a lie) and I haven't been able to be with someone since. It's hard with trust issues to let people in my life, though I have made it possible. I anyway had trust issues before that and other stuff that affected me so I kind of feel my situation is understandable.
If she's feeling that way because of little lies or something that does not affect the whole course of the relationship, then she's only saying it to make you feel bad (and it's working) and she wants you to do stuff to make her feel better or just to see you suffer. It would take a lot more than that (in my opinion) to be able to say those things.
I don't know what you could do, in my case the damage was undoable, I don't ever want to see that guy again. I guess you could apologize again and just ask her if there's anything you can do to make her feel better. Or just leave it, I'm sure she'll find someone else eventually. Let it cool off for a bit first and then try and talk to her and tell her how you really feel and see how she reacts.

41down wrote:If she's feeling that way because of little lies or something that does not affect the whole course of the relationship, then she's only saying it to make you feel bad (and it's working) and she wants you to do stuff to make her feel better or just to see you suffer.

Women can be so cruel!

If she's going to die next week then i guess she's right.