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i FINALLY got to talk to her today on the walk out to gym. its was just her and me :D . it felt so great. now the next time it wont be so awkward to talk to each other.
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Chewy wrote:You can never make your approach risk free. If you are worried about what everyone else will think if she rejects you than imagining what life will be like with this hot new girl then you will never make a move!!

If she is always with her friends then approach her in an adult way and say that you want to ask her something in private. If she is mean or laughs at you then I guess she wasn't who she thought she was. If not..

With any luck her friends will disapear and you will be able to ask her on a date. If she says yes then you'll be seriously hi. If she turns you down then don't worry about it for now, she will now know that you like her and will be watching you more than she ever did before and this may get her thinking. During this stage don't harass her just give her a warm genuine smile everytime you see her. If a connection grows from this then you'll know it before long!!

Don't worry about what anyone else will think, you will have the satisfying feeling that you didn't waste a chance.

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Bennett-182 wrote:i FINALLY got to talk to her today on the walk out to gym. its was just her and me :D . it felt so great. now the next time it wont be so awkward to talk to each other.
what'd u say to her?
ps: i have friend in new york, i hope it's not her lol
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well shes on the volleyball team so i opened with that. then we went into how stupid some of the coaches are. it didnt feel like she didnt want to talk to me or want to get away so that was good. and btw i do know we just havn't talked that much. but after this is going to be much easier
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thats cool man. hopefully you can keep talking to her like that, get to know each other, and see what comes of that
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i went to her volleyball game today it was great. and i knew she saw me their so that was nice too. i cant wait to see her again and tell her what an awesome job she did! question: should i try and give her a high 5 saying like awesome job! or is that stupid to open with?
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don't think so, u barely know her, you just may scare her
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well, i dont barely know her, we do talk sometimes. it wouldnt be awkward to say hi or anything like that.
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alright screw the high 5 then :P
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lol...got a pic of her???? loike myspace or sumthin. ill ask her out for ya
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yea that wouldnt be wierd :|

thanks though :)
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did you ever get the girll!?
And I know I said I needed space,

but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.

So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,

I'm just not ready to leave my room.

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Nah, quit the anonymous thing. I know it's hard, but just try to start a conversation with her, and start slowly. Not too slow, or you'll get in the friend zone. What's that? She'll look at you like you're her cute little brother. You don't want that to happen.

Things you don't want to hear from a girl:
Well, my boyfriend... (insert something)
You're like a brother to me

Stuff like that.
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This girl I know watches me when I sleep on my way to school. Every now and then I look out the corner of my eye and see her looking at me. But when I go to talk and make eye contact she looks, then looks away. Is that good or bad??
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^good, if you like her.
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soccer44151 wrote:This girl I know watches me when I sleep on my way to school. Every now and then I look out the corner of my eye and see her looking at me. But when I go to talk and make eye contact she looks, then looks away. Is that good or bad??
I'm a girl and i will tell that's relly good
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^ BUT WHY WOULD YOU JUST STARE??? ITS KINDA WIERD.. :?: :?: :?:
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soccer44151 wrote:This girl I know watches me when I sleep on my way to school. Every now and then I look out the corner of my eye and see her looking at me. But when I go to talk and make eye contact she looks, then looks away. Is that good or bad??
ive got the same thing going with this real cute girl in my class.
but, i just freeze up whenever i go to talk to her... :oops:
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budgie wrote:
soccer44151 wrote:This girl I know watches me when I sleep on my way to school. Every now and then I look out the corner of my eye and see her looking at me. But when I go to talk and make eye contact she looks, then looks away. Is that good or bad??
ive got the same thing going with this real cute girl in my class.
but, i just freeze up whenever i go to talk to her... :oops:
holy crap, same here

but i think its with 2 or maybe even more 8) 8)
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tomhoppus wrote:
budgie wrote:
soccer44151 wrote:This girl I know watches me when I sleep on my way to school. Every now and then I look out the corner of my eye and see her looking at me. But when I go to talk and make eye contact she looks, then looks away. Is that good or bad??
ive got the same thing going with this real cute girl in my class.
but, i just freeze up whenever i go to talk to her... :oops:
holy crap, same here

but i think its with 2 or maybe even more 8) 8)
Anyone going to try one and ask their staring girl? when you do post what happend. lol. GL
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