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Moving On
I think i'm ganna break up with my current gf and try to get another one. My reason: I had a dream about another girl that just made me happy. And the only thing we did was hug. i'm kinda lost right now....... I kinda like the other girl and...I just don't know.......
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Re: Moving On
Don't rush into things, take time to think about what your doing.
Does this mean you do not like/love your current girlfriend?
Does this mean you do not like/love your current girlfriend?
Re: Moving On
dreams about other girls are natural. if things are fine with you and your current gf, its best to stay that way.
for all you know, the other girl could be a total douche (no offense intended)
its not worth risking throwing away something good over some other girl.
for all you know, the other girl could be a total douche (no offense intended)
its not worth risking throwing away something good over some other girl.
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Re: Moving On
How long have you been together with your girlfriend?
Dreams are natural, and most of the times may be hints of what you want.
Maybe you want that kind of situations with your current girlfriend and think they're so unlikely to happen that you just put another face on the girl you were dreaming of.
Ok, I'm just throwing it out there, I don't know what I'm saying but still... I would talk a bit more with your girlfriend, and there's no need to specifically talk about your dream girl ;), but let her know that you'd like some things to change.
V, for your relationship matters.
Dreams are natural, and most of the times may be hints of what you want.
Maybe you want that kind of situations with your current girlfriend and think they're so unlikely to happen that you just put another face on the girl you were dreaming of.
Ok, I'm just throwing it out there, I don't know what I'm saying but still... I would talk a bit more with your girlfriend, and there's no need to specifically talk about your dream girl ;), but let her know that you'd like some things to change.
V, for your relationship matters.
Don't try to kill a mockingbird, they're the fucking mafia of the animal kingdom.
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Re: Moving On
Here's what I think.
I think you should just kill yourself. It's best that way.
Edit!? You asked for help. I felt like helping you in the only way I can.
I think you should just kill yourself. It's best that way.
Edit!? You asked for help. I felt like helping you in the only way I can.
but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.
So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,
I'm just not ready to leave my room.
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Re: Moving On
I've been thinking about killing myself for the last... let's say... 11 months?Kyle wrote:Here's what I think.
I think you should just kill yourself. It's best that way.
Edit!? You asked for help. I felt like helping you in the only way I can.
And it's not that easy. In fact, I think that once you want to die, dying becomes so hard. Cars won't ever hit you, bullets will dodge you... etcetera.
Life is a bitch, even when you don't want to live anymore.
So I would go with plan B (or plan V)... Buy a puppy.
Don't try to kill a mockingbird, they're the fucking mafia of the animal kingdom.
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Re: Moving On
I've had more feelings toward the girl in the dream than my gf now..... I was going to ask the girl in the dream but one of my current gf's friends told me she likes me so I asked her instead...V wrote:How long have you been together with your girlfriend?
Dreams are natural, and most of the times may be hints of what you want.
Maybe you want that kind of situations with your current girlfriend and think they're so unlikely to happen that you just put another face on the girl you were dreaming of.
Ok, I'm just throwing it out there, I don't know what I'm saying but still... I would talk a bit more with your girlfriend, and there's no need to specifically talk about your dream girl ;), but let her know that you'd like some things to change.
V, for your relationship matters.
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Re: Moving On
Oh wait... I thought your dreamgirl didn't exist (Silly me!)
Well... I don't know. Just don't fuck everything up and up alone.
That's my advice: don't end up alone.
Oh... I suck.
Well... I don't know. Just don't fuck everything up and up alone.
That's my advice: don't end up alone.
Oh... I suck.
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Re: Moving On
Well, damn, V. You really ruined my post. I feel like a dick now. I'm sorry about it. I was just trying to make myself laugh, but now I feel bad. I know that it's hard to do that, though. I mean, I was going through a rough time in my life a year or so ago. I felt like I had no friends, my family didn't think I was good enough, I had no real life, and what not. It was all untrue, but I convinced myself of this. I kept thinking about killing myself, and I realized how hard it was to do. I tried thinking of every way possible.. every way seemed to have a bad taste. Then, things started turning around, I met a girl that I really liked... I started talking to my friends again... everything turned around. That same girl ended up pretty much ditching me, but I can't dislike her because she really did help me out.V wrote:I've been thinking about killing myself for the last... let's say... 11 months?Kyle wrote:Here's what I think.
I think you should just kill yourself. It's best that way.
Edit!? You asked for help. I felt like helping you in the only way I can.
And it's not that easy. In fact, I think that once you want to die, dying becomes so hard. Cars won't ever hit you, bullets will dodge you... etcetera.
Life is a bitch, even when you don't want to live anymore.
So I would go with plan B (or plan V)... Buy a puppy.
Anyways, sorry P, for possibly ruining your thread.
but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.
So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,
I'm just not ready to leave my room.
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Re: Moving On
That's ok. I just don't know what to do about it. I'm wanting the dream girl(lets call her DG) more and more now. I just don't want to hurt my current gf.....Kyle wrote:Well, damn, V. You really ruined my post. I feel like a dick now. I'm sorry about it. I was just trying to make myself laugh, but now I feel bad. I know that it's hard to do that, though. I mean, I was going through a rough time in my life a year or so ago. I felt like I had no friends, my family didn't think I was good enough, I had no real life, and what not. It was all untrue, but I convinced myself of this. I kept thinking about killing myself, and I realized how hard it was to do. I tried thinking of every way possible.. every way seemed to have a bad taste. Then, things started turning around, I met a girl that I really liked... I started talking to my friends again... everything turned around. That same girl ended up pretty much ditching me, but I can't dislike her because she really did help me out.V wrote:I've been thinking about killing myself for the last... let's say... 11 months?Kyle wrote:Here's what I think.
I think you should just kill yourself. It's best that way.
Edit!? You asked for help. I felt like helping you in the only way I can.
And it's not that easy. In fact, I think that once you want to die, dying becomes so hard. Cars won't ever hit you, bullets will dodge you... etcetera.
Life is a bitch, even when you don't want to live anymore.
So I would go with plan B (or plan V)... Buy a puppy.
Anyways, sorry P, for possibly ruining your thread.
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Re: Moving On
Just take the one that will give you hardcore sex.P. wrote: That's ok. I just don't know what to do about it. I'm wanting the dream girl(lets call her DG) more and more now. I just don't want to hurt my current gf.....
but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.
So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,
I'm just not ready to leave my room.
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Oh not at all! It's OK Kyle my dear... It's OK ;)Kyle wrote: Well, damn, V. You really ruined my post. I feel like a dick now. I'm sorry about it. I was just trying to make myself laugh, but now I feel bad. I know that it's hard to do that, though. I mean, I was going through a rough time in my life a year or so ago. I felt like I had no friends, my family didn't think I was good enough, I had no real life, and what not. It was all untrue, but I convinced myself of this. I kept thinking about killing myself, and I realized how hard it was to do. I tried thinking of every way possible.. every way seemed to have a bad taste. Then, things started turning around, I met a girl that I really liked... I started talking to my friends again... everything turned around. That same girl ended up pretty much ditching me, but I can't dislike her because she really did help me out.
Anyways, sorry P, for possibly ruining your thread.
And I seriously trust your help now that I see that I'm not the only one that ever felt that way. So thank you so much Kyle!
It's OK. I'm feeling good right now. I can't say I'll be feeling this way for the rest of the day but for now it's OK. I just can't handle my depression, that's all.
But what's more annoying than discussing someone else's problems in someone else's thread? ;)
So let's go back to P...
I think you should talk this over (with us! haha).
No, really. I think you should talk with your girlfriend and see if it was just a dream or... I don't know.
Oh and teenage relationships are so complicated... And it shouldn't be that way but... You know, hormones.
And about hardcore sex... Good point.
Don't try to kill a mockingbird, they're the fucking mafia of the animal kingdom.
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Re: Moving On
Best idea ever.
Make your girlfriend OK with the idea of sharing you. Then you can have 2 girlfriends, and this problem = solved.
Make your girlfriend OK with the idea of sharing you. Then you can have 2 girlfriends, and this problem = solved.
but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.
So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,
I'm just not ready to leave my room.
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Re: Moving On
If i talk it over with my currernt gf she'll flip and leave. This has to be a dream because the girl i dreamed about is 2 states away. And sex is not my main objective here. (I already can get that)V wrote:Oh not at all! It's OK Kyle my dear... It's OK ;)Kyle wrote: Well, damn, V. You really ruined my post. I feel like a dick now. I'm sorry about it. I was just trying to make myself laugh, but now I feel bad. I know that it's hard to do that, though. I mean, I was going through a rough time in my life a year or so ago. I felt like I had no friends, my family didn't think I was good enough, I had no real life, and what not. It was all untrue, but I convinced myself of this. I kept thinking about killing myself, and I realized how hard it was to do. I tried thinking of every way possible.. every way seemed to have a bad taste. Then, things started turning around, I met a girl that I really liked... I started talking to my friends again... everything turned around. That same girl ended up pretty much ditching me, but I can't dislike her because she really did help me out.
Anyways, sorry P, for possibly ruining your thread.
And I seriously trust your help now that I see that I'm not the only one that ever felt that way. So thank you so much Kyle!
It's OK. I'm feeling good right now. I can't say I'll be feeling this way for the rest of the day but for now it's OK. I just can't handle my depression, that's all.
But what's more annoying than discussing someone else's problems in someone else's thread? ;)
So let's go back to P...
I think you should talk this over (with us! haha).
No, really. I think you should talk with your girlfriend and see if it was just a dream or... I don't know.
Oh and teenage relationships are so complicated... And it shouldn't be that way but... You know, hormones.
And about hardcore sex... Good point.
I just want to still be friends with my gf now and get the other girl....
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Re: Moving On
I know, my posts are just a big joke.P. wrote:If i talk it over with my currernt gf she'll flip and leave. This has to be a dream because the girl i dreamed about is 2 states away. And sex is not my main objective here. (I already can get that)V wrote:Oh not at all! It's OK Kyle my dear... It's OK ;)Kyle wrote: Well, damn, V. You really ruined my post. I feel like a dick now. I'm sorry about it. I was just trying to make myself laugh, but now I feel bad. I know that it's hard to do that, though. I mean, I was going through a rough time in my life a year or so ago. I felt like I had no friends, my family didn't think I was good enough, I had no real life, and what not. It was all untrue, but I convinced myself of this. I kept thinking about killing myself, and I realized how hard it was to do. I tried thinking of every way possible.. every way seemed to have a bad taste. Then, things started turning around, I met a girl that I really liked... I started talking to my friends again... everything turned around. That same girl ended up pretty much ditching me, but I can't dislike her because she really did help me out.
Anyways, sorry P, for possibly ruining your thread.
And I seriously trust your help now that I see that I'm not the only one that ever felt that way. So thank you so much Kyle!
It's OK. I'm feeling good right now. I can't say I'll be feeling this way for the rest of the day but for now it's OK. I just can't handle my depression, that's all.
But what's more annoying than discussing someone else's problems in someone else's thread? ;)
So let's go back to P...
I think you should talk this over (with us! haha).
No, really. I think you should talk with your girlfriend and see if it was just a dream or... I don't know.
Oh and teenage relationships are so complicated... And it shouldn't be that way but... You know, hormones.
And about hardcore sex... Good point.
I just want to still be friends with my gf now and get the other girl....
If the other girl is 2 states away... there's really no point... I mean, online dating? How will it ever work? You'll find yourself wanting your old girl pretty quickly, I think.
but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.
So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,
I'm just not ready to leave my room.
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Re: Moving On
haha, sorry let me explain. V saidKyle wrote:I know, my posts are just a big joke.P. wrote:If i talk it over with my currernt gf she'll flip and leave. This has to be a dream because the girl i dreamed about is 2 states away. And sex is not my main objective here. (I already can get that)V wrote:Oh not at all! It's OK Kyle my dear... It's OK ;)Kyle wrote: Well, damn, V. You really ruined my post. I feel like a dick now. I'm sorry about it. I was just trying to make myself laugh, but now I feel bad. I know that it's hard to do that, though. I mean, I was going through a rough time in my life a year or so ago. I felt like I had no friends, my family didn't think I was good enough, I had no real life, and what not. It was all untrue, but I convinced myself of this. I kept thinking about killing myself, and I realized how hard it was to do. I tried thinking of every way possible.. every way seemed to have a bad taste. Then, things started turning around, I met a girl that I really liked... I started talking to my friends again... everything turned around. That same girl ended up pretty much ditching me, but I can't dislike her because she really did help me out.
Anyways, sorry P, for possibly ruining your thread.
And I seriously trust your help now that I see that I'm not the only one that ever felt that way. So thank you so much Kyle!
It's OK. I'm feeling good right now. I can't say I'll be feeling this way for the rest of the day but for now it's OK. I just can't handle my depression, that's all.
But what's more annoying than discussing someone else's problems in someone else's thread? ;)
So let's go back to P...
I think you should talk this over (with us! haha).
No, really. I think you should talk with your girlfriend and see if it was just a dream or... I don't know.
Oh and teenage relationships are so complicated... And it shouldn't be that way but... You know, hormones.
And about hardcore sex... Good point.
I just want to still be friends with my gf now and get the other girl....
If the other girl is 2 states away... there's really no point... I mean, online dating? How will it ever work? You'll find yourself wanting your old girl pretty quickly, I think.
SO i answered that i couldn't be a dream because she was 2 states away. I'm on vacation right now and there is nothing to do at my grandparents house.No, really. I think you should talk with your girlfriend and see if it was just a dream or... I don't know.
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Re: Moving On
peter that's almost impossibleI just want to still be friends with my gf now and get the other girl....
my advice is that it was only a dream
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Re: Moving On
Well, from a girl's point of view, you probably won't stay friends with her. But if she is smart, she'll appreciate the fact that you talked to her, rather than just cheating on her and keep it a secret. You've got to think, is that dreamgirl really worth breaking up with your current girlfriend? I mean, the dreamgirl might not even like you in that way or whatever problem might come across. I don't know how you feel or what is the exact situation, it's up to you to decide, but to be honest, teenage relationships hardly ever last until adulthood, so do what you must, it's a good chance you'll probably won't stay with your current anyways. Do what makes you happy.
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But i want the other girl more now.....Still Waiting wrote:peter that's almost impossibleI just want to still be friends with my gf now and get the other girl....
my advice is that it was only a dream
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Well, P.
I say go for it. You already made up your mind. You like this girl now. You don't like the other one. What could go wrong? You'll be less than friends with the girl for a while, but the friendship will probably build up again. It usually does at 14.
I say go for it. You already made up your mind. You like this girl now. You don't like the other one. What could go wrong? You'll be less than friends with the girl for a while, but the friendship will probably build up again. It usually does at 14.
but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.
So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,
I'm just not ready to leave my room.
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