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Post by CIRCUITzach »

so ive been depressed if you havent noticed,
but its starting to look up
idk
my reasons that i were or was depressed was because
idk
im lonely, idk and other stuff i wont get into
but theres a girl who i sorta like(d)
idk were great freinds and all
but idk
i ask her wat she was doing this week end (the 13th, 14th and 15th)
she said she was busy, but on the 13th and 14th her AIm and fb status were i need plans
so i think she lied to me, so does that mean i have no chance?
i dont like it that she lied to me i woulda liked it if i just got a no.
idk ive been nothing but nice to her, i surprised with gifts out of the blue. like 4 pack of monsters and tshirts and other stuff, and spent alot on her for her bday and xmas.
we did go to the movies once, but i think she only went becuase it was my birthday, i paid ;)
idk she treats me different in front of different people, and most of the time only yells at me
idk my lifes a joke.
should i move on?

im gonna start to act dif in front of her now.
im gona only do wat makes me happy.
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Yes. Just do whatever makes you happy. And...idk. Fuck da bitch if she wants to be a bitch...there'll be better girls out there prolly..hopefully...
But ya. Whatever the fuck makes you happy, stick to that.
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Why do I think what you wrote are lyrics of your own song? =\
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Yeah, fuk that girl! Just think poker man! :D
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Forget the bitch. :neutral:
Do what you want.
You'll soon forget the depression and end up enjoying yourself. :mrgreen:
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if you go out with me, that'll make her jealous :hehe:

but move on man. i've asked out 4 girls this year, all of whom i KNEW that they liked me, all of which said no. so im basically in the same boat man. just move on.

but u should do what i do; ask her out again. face to face, ask her out. do it.

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Well if she's not interested and wants to be like that with you, then just forget about it. You should move on! There are gonna be other girls in your life. Just forget about her. If she acts different in front of different people, that sort of makes me feel she's a hypocrite. I know and hate people like that. Do what makes you happy! I hate seeing people depressed. :sad: And why the fuck would she lie to you anyway? I mean, if she really did. You probably wouldn't want someone that can't tell you something straight up, right? o.0
CIRCUITzach wrote:should i move on?
A question like this answers itself, really. You should definitely move on. :mrgreen:
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daredbus wrote:Why do I think what you wrote are lyrics of your own song? =\
the hell song - sum 41


thanks all, for da help or advice, watever your heart wishes to call it
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^It's "everybody," not "everyone."

And if she's telling you she's busy and then making that big of a show of her not being busy, she's trying to send you a message, not depress you.

She's not interested. We're girls. When people we're not interested in make advance on us, we pretty much do anything to make them go away. I made my friend pretend to be my boyfriend and be an asshole to this one guy for a quite extended amount of time just to get him out of my face.

I also don't think you guys were ever "great friends" if you're in your current predicament.
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she doesn't know what she wants. talk to her privately about your feelings. is this the same girl that got my poem? if she doesn't want to be with you after that, run her down with your car. (jk, of corse)
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NoReason27 wrote:she doesn't know what she wants. talk to her privately about your feelings. is this the same girl that got my poem? if she doesn't want to be with you after that, run her down with your car. (jk, of corse)
no the poem was for my best friend
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NoReason27 wrote:she doesn't know what she wants.
Take it from a girl who understands our language. She knows exactly what she wants (or doesn't want...). If he takes her off to the side and talks to her about it, it will be intensely awkward. Trust me.
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Phili wrote:
NoReason27 wrote:she doesn't know what she wants.
Take it from a girl who understands our language. She knows exactly what she wants (or doesn't want...). If he takes her off to the side and talks to her about it, it will be intensely awkward. Trust me.
well, the way i see it, he said that they she treats him differently alone than in front of others. i saw that as a sign, she likes him, but doesn't know if her friends will accept her because of it. she is confused. i think taking her aside will clear up some confusion. sure it may be awkward, but it'll give you guys a chance to express your concerns.

but Phili is a girl. she does know more about girls that i do. or probably ever will.
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Phili wrote:^It's "everybody," not "everyone."

And if she's telling you she's busy and then making that big of a show of her not being busy, she's trying to send you a message, not depress you.

She's not interested. We're girls. When people we're not interested in make advance on us, we pretty much do anything to make them go away. I made my friend pretend to be my boyfriend and be an asshole to this one guy for a quite extended amount of time just to get him out of my face.

I also don't think you guys were ever "great friends" if you're in your current predicament.
phili that's cruel :devious:
zach if she lied to you it means that you two are not great friends , if my friends want to go out and i do'nt i just tell them the truth ...
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everything phili said.
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2712 wrote:well, the way i see it, he said that they she treats him differently alone than in front of others. i saw that as a sign, she likes him, but doesn't know if her friends will accept her because of it. she is confused. i think taking her aside will clear up some confusion. sure it may be awkward, but it'll give you guys a chance to express your concerns.

but Phili is a girl. she does know more about girls that i do. or probably ever will.
We don't tend to act that way in front of other people if we like someone but are afraid that other people won't accept it. Acting like a jerk to someone you like in front of other people is definitely more of a guy thing.

She seems to like him as a friend, but is all too aware that he likes her and is handling it the wrong way. One not-so-good, but usually effective, habit of ours is to push guys away when we realize they like us that way and we don't return the sentiment. We think it spares their feelings in the long run but I'm not entirely sure if it does.

Girls find guys hard to understand, and guys definitely find girls hard to understand, but girls are definitely better as separating what the two genders do than guys are. While girls have an acute awareness of what is a very male course of action and what is a very female course of action, the line seems to be a bit more blurred for guys. They tend to think of what they would do and incorrectly apply it to a girl's actions. It's part of why, when two girls are arguing, a guy will anticipate a physical catfight, while a girl will assume that while the debate may escalate verbally, the likelihood of a physical fight is very slim.

I'm not nearly familiar enough with the situation or her habits to give a definite response, but I've seen (and been in) a couple of situations like this where I knew the girl's exact feelings.

And I would hope that you'll never know more about girls than I do...
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I know the most about girls, because well, I'm the boss.
She wants you asap.
She pushes you away because you listen to emo music like GlassJAw and Sum 41.
She knows you're depressed because she was staring at you the other night while you were typing out your last "i'm depressed" topic on TNS, and she really hopes you get depressed to the point where GlassJAw and old underOATH can't fill your depressive needs so that you commit suicide. The truth is, she wants you so bad, but she knows that if she breaks your heart you probably will drown yourself.
And I know I said I needed space,

but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.

So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,

I'm just not ready to leave my room.

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I See Stars wrote:She pushes you away because you listen to emo music like GlassJAw and Sum 41.
*COUGH* Pardon? :roll:

I know you're kidding :silly: well.. I hope you are. :confused:
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Sara41 wrote:
I See Stars wrote:She pushes you away because you listen to emo music like GlassJAw and Sum 41.
*COUGH* Pardon? :roll:

I know you're kidding :silly: well.. I hope you are. :confused:
Of course he is!
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