I'm worried about my friend Zach

UnderclassHeroine · Post by **UnderclassHeroine** » Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:19 am

OKay, my friend Zach..is like 17 and my mom doesn't like me hanging out with him because she walked in with me having my arms around him..and well his mom is making him find a place to stay and everything...and see I didn't find this weird, I found it wrong and everything, but see he's still in school and everything and he told me on how his mom didn't like him. Well Friday, I lifted up his shirt to give him a wedgie..well to see what I was grabbing at and I saw the big ass red mark on his back...and then later on a scar on his side. I want to ask him how it happened, but I didn't think it was any of my business, but I'm a bit worried because my friend said he might be getting abused and I should ask about it..but I don't feel like being nosy...what should I do?

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Tue Jun 26, 2007 1:56 pm

Just ask him and maybe before you ask him say something like sorry for being nosy or asomething like that.That wasnt very helpful.

Claudia · Post by **Claudia** » Tue Jun 26, 2007 3:29 pm

Just ask.If youre friends,hell be happy that you ask an that he can tell someone.

Phili · Post by **Phili** » Tue Jun 26, 2007 8:17 pm

The reason why people are continuously abused is that no one steps in. You have to ask him.

MissWhibley · Post by **MissWhibley** » Tue Jun 26, 2007 8:47 pm

the key to all problems is: talk!
u musk talk with him, ask him and tell him whats on ur mind.

Post by V » Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:01 pm

Phili wrote:The reason why people are continuously abused is that no one steps in. You have to ask him.

charle22 · Post by **charle22** » Tue Jun 26, 2007 9:52 pm

ask ask ask ask ask

Jon Nolan · Post by **Jon Nolan** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 7:55 am

I agree with the others, ask him.

UnderclassHeroine · Post by **UnderclassHeroine** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 6:29 pm

I'll ask him tomorrow.....if i get the guts.

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Wed Jun 27, 2007 6:42 pm

xMichellex wrote:I'll ask him tomorrow.....if i get the guts.

Just do it.Whats the worst that can happen?

grandpa · Post by **grandpa** » Wed Jun 27, 2007 10:14 pm

ask him...and make sure he gets help
and tell your mom to fuck off...thats a fucking stupid reason not to like someone

Zam · Post by **Zam** » Thu Jun 28, 2007 2:41 pm

K... I usually get abused of too.. at home.... You should talk to him.. It just gets worse if you don't, believe me.
I started talking to my parents about it after I spoke to my teacher about it. They noticed I was pretty depressive lately and someone had spilt the fact that I had been saying suicidal stuff.... so yeah...
Talk to him.

Mr. Penguin · Post by **Mr. Penguin** » Fri Jun 29, 2007 3:35 am

V wrote:
Phili wrote:The reason why people are continuously abused is that no one steps in. You have to ask him.

UnderclassHeroine · Post by **UnderclassHeroine** » Fri Jun 29, 2007 2:28 pm

Well I was going to ask, but it slipped my mind because we kind of had a few friends up there, stalked some people for fun, got pissed off at Lance, and I kissed Zach twice on the cheek. One to try and get my stuff back and another time for a picture. I hate the new remodeled stores they tell us to leave or buy something if we've been in there like two or more times. I was like STFU I"M NOT SHOPPING FROM YOU ANYMORE! -growls- Rude people...

And after I left I still didn't remember because I went to OutBack and the bus boy told me happy birthday twice(And I never told him anything about my birthday) and talked to me a little bit even though he wasn't working and he looked like a wannabe gangster. Oh well...I just now remembered and feel like an idiot.

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Fri Jun 29, 2007 4:03 pm

xMichellex wrote:Well I was going to ask, but it slipped my mind because we kind of had a few friends up there, stalked some people for fun, got pissed off at Lance, and I kissed Zach twice on the cheek. One to try and get my stuff back and another time for a picture. I hate the new remodeled stores they tell us to leave or buy something if we've been in there like two or more times. I was like STFU I"M NOT SHOPPING FROM YOU ANYMORE! -growls- Rude people...

And after I left I still didn't remember because I went to OutBack and the bus boy told me happy birthday twice(And I never told him anything about my birthday) and talked to me a little bit even though he wasn't working and he looked like a wannabe gangster. Oh well...I just now remembered and feel like an idiot.

So are you two like dating or something?

UnderclassHeroine · Post by **UnderclassHeroine** » Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:25 pm

No....I've kissed my friend Brian before...on the lips and cheek and licked his cheek before. But two of them were for a dare, but I would want to go out with him, he's pretty cool.

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:29 pm

xMichellex wrote:No....I've kissed my friend Brian before...on the lips and cheek and licked his cheek before. But two of them were for a dare, but I would want to go out with him, he's pretty cool.

Then ask him out.

UnderclassHeroine · Post by **UnderclassHeroine** » Fri Jun 29, 2007 6:35 pm

I would, but I'm too shy.

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Fri Jun 29, 2007 11:59 pm

xMichellex wrote:I would, but I'm too shy.

Just ask him out and who knows maybe he`ll say yes and dont be shy you cant live your life in fear.

Buttpt · Post by **Buttpt** » Sat Jun 30, 2007 2:33 am

yeah, you only live once (some say you don't) and what do you have to lose?
Besides...it's better than one day being sorry because you didn't ask him out.