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Postby miss-sweeney on Wed Dec 03, 2008 12:41 pm

would you forgive it? or did you?
idk what to do...cuz i always thought that the relationship is over if it comes to that. but now im cofused
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Re: cheating

Postby iemnaiz on Wed Dec 03, 2008 1:16 pm

you cheated on your boyfriend? :shock:
umm..cheating is bad
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Re: cheating

Postby Pedro on Wed Dec 03, 2008 1:42 pm

if your husband cheats on you, it's bad. If your bf cheats on you, then cheat on him.
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Re: cheating

Postby Neverwakeup on Wed Dec 03, 2008 3:07 pm

I would not cheat on my girlfriend if I would have one...I think its bad.
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Re: cheating

Postby samueeL on Wed Dec 03, 2008 3:40 pm

Sure after few years dating I'd forgive, but not earlier i think
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Postby Neverwakeup on Wed Dec 03, 2008 3:49 pm

samueeL wrote:Sure after few years dating I'd forgive, but not earlier i think


I guess in these few years she would have find a new one...
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Re: cheating

Postby [stoked-cow] on Wed Dec 03, 2008 5:20 pm

i've been cheated on kinda, an ex almost slept with my best friend. we weren't serious, so i wasn't bothered. but i dunno, it depends on your experience. if you live in a society where it happens alot, you'll be less reactive to it, and vice versa. i'm becoming more emotionally invested girls now, too easily admittedly, but i guess that's a factor.
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Re: cheating

Postby stu on Wed Dec 03, 2008 6:25 pm

Its just something you don't do!
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Re: cheating

Postby budgie on Wed Dec 03, 2008 6:55 pm

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Re: cheating

Postby miss-sweeney on Wed Dec 03, 2008 7:41 pm

iemnaiz wrote:you cheated on your boyfriend? :shock:
umm..cheating is bad

kinda.
i know it's bad and that nobody should do it.....uff it's hard. i see that bitch everywhere. and all the things i (have) had with him are now shit. cuz she took it all away. do you believe in 'mce a cheater, always a cheater'?
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Re: cheating

Postby the perfect li e on Wed Dec 03, 2008 9:35 pm

samueeL wrote:Sure after few years dating I'd forgive, but not earlier i think


Wouldn't that just make it harder you know if you were with her for that long and then when you really trust her and all and then she cheats on you?
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Re: cheating

Postby Druska on Wed Dec 03, 2008 10:25 pm

beat the shit out of them and you'll feel better
i would never forgive that
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Re: cheating

Postby Gibsum 41 on Wed Dec 03, 2008 11:24 pm

Aside from the "beating the shit out of them" part, I agree with Andrea. How can you forgive someone who completely offers you his/her trust and then destroys it with something as terrible as cheating. That's one of the things I can't stand at all.
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Re: cheating

Postby withchappedlips on Wed Dec 03, 2008 11:49 pm

I have trouble dealing with this topic. I mean, it's pathetic because I don't know what I'd do if someone cheated on me, or if I cheated on someone, but I'd gladly cheat with someone... I think.

I mean, if I was cheated on by a girl, and I was in love with her, I'd probably go into a huge depression and I don't even know how I'd deal with it. It would be extremely hard to get over.

I couldn't cheat on someone, and that's mainly because I am too nice. I wouldn't do it, because I wouldn't want her to do it to me also.

Also, in most cases, if you cheat once, you will probably do it again. I know very few people who have been able to only do it once -- if they have to begin with.
And I know I said I needed space,

but I know I can't be comfortable in my own skin.

So when I say I'm scared to be alone, you know I mean it,

I'm just not ready to leave my room.

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Re: cheating

Postby Jeremy Kill on Thu Dec 04, 2008 1:21 am

It kind of depends on the relationship for me. If it was serious, I probably wouldn't. You know, the whole "treat other how you want to be treated" sort of thing.

But if it's a relationship I know wouldn't last anyways, I would likely be inclined to cheat. For example, if I was dating Paris Hilton or a girl like Paris Hilton.
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Re: cheating

Postby iemnaiz on Thu Dec 04, 2008 4:26 am

miss-sweeney wrote:
iemnaiz wrote:you cheated on your boyfriend? :shock:
umm..cheating is bad

do you believe in 'mce a cheater, always a cheater'?


people change!
so you cheated on your boyfriend because your boyfriend cheated on you?sorry,im confused.
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Re: cheating

Postby miss-sweeney on Thu Dec 04, 2008 10:49 am

iemnaiz wrote:people change!
so you cheated on your boyfriend because your boyfriend cheated on you?sorry,im confused.


no no i wasn't cheating.
i just saw some interesting messages that imply that he has something with his ex
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Re: cheating

Postby Janet on Thu Dec 04, 2008 3:47 pm

I wouldn't cheat on someone, i'd rather break up with the person before, if i knew that i'm in love with someone else. Also i'd never forgive cheating, because i'd never think of the cheater the way i used to. I don't take these things very lightly.

Also i don't see the point of cheating, everyone involved will get hurt in some ways, so it's quite pointless.
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Re: cheating

Postby Druska on Thu Dec 04, 2008 4:24 pm

Forum idiot wrote:Also, in most cases, if you cheat once, you will probably do it again. I know very few people who have been able to only do it once -- if they have to begin with.

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Re: cheating

Postby the perfect li e on Thu Dec 04, 2008 6:18 pm

janetvaher wrote:I wouldn't cheat on someone, i'd rather break up with the person before, if i knew that i'm in love with someone else. Also i'd never forgive cheating, because i'd never think of the cheater the way i used to. I don't take these things very lightly.

Also i don't see the point of cheating, everyone involved will get hurt in some ways, so it's quite pointless.


I have a similar point of view on this as you do, however in some cases I think I could forgive cheating if there were special circumstances(I was very drunk and things got out of hand but that would have to be verified by some witnesses beacuse there's a little drunk =>it clouds your judgement but no way on a matter of such relevance, and there's hamered drunk => I don't remember half of the events that took place and OMG I cheated on my partner how the fuck could I do such a thing)

Well I've been in that situation and thankfully I wasn't that drunk so I told the girl to back off.

Well I guess you come to know who you really are, seeing your reaction when it comes to such matters.
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