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it's happening again!

Postby budgie on Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:12 pm

so, uh, theres this girl... ( :roll: )

first of all, its nothing like my last scenario. i have actually talked to this girl. i have been to a concert with her (where, incidentally, i had to pretend to be her boyfriend so that this drunken dude would back off. that was pretty cool.) she sits beside me in study hall (lets just call her Study Hall Girl) she's very cute and friendly. i think i'm starting to like her.

but there's a catch. she's got a boyfriend.

i've met him. he's actually pretty cool. but he's near 2 years older than me and would have no bother beating the shit out of me. but the thing is, she rarely mentions him, and tends to be a bit close with me (nothing sexual).

should i ask her about her situation with her boyfriend or something? im feeling a bit guilty and uncomfortable getting close to her, knowing that she is going with him. and at least i will know where i stand.

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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Bobbyjames on Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:28 pm

why not, sound like you've got nothing to lose in this situation. its better knowing you tried than wondering what if...
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Postby Madjid on Thu Sep 04, 2008 8:58 pm

bobbyjames wrote: its better knowing you tried than wondering what if...


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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Druska on Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:51 pm

well dont ask her how are things whit her bf maybe she doesnt talk about him cos she doesnt trust you enough or i guess she talks about him with her girl friends so try to speak with one of them
My advice speak more with her and probably she herself will tell you something
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Postby Gibsum 41 on Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:59 pm

I think the first thing you should do is become a really good friend of hers.
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Postby budgie on Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:05 pm

Gibsum 41 wrote:I think the first thing you should do is become a really good friend of hers.

im getting there... :sweat:
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby CIRCUITzach on Fri Sep 05, 2008 2:30 am

jus be like bitch its budiges time
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby V on Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:21 am

GET AWAY WHILE YOU CAN!

MOVE FROM THE COUNTRY!

MAYBE HER BF KNOWS!

You can come to our brand new TNS Shelter for perverts.

Now on a more serious note: get closer, then you'll see things better (and we'll be there for you).
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Postby CIRCUITzach on Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:39 am

V wrote:GET AWAY WHILE YOU CAN!

MOVE FROM THE COUNTRY!

MAYBE HER BF KNOWS!

You can come to our brand new TNS Shelter for perverts.

Now on a more serious note: get closer, then you'll see things better (and we'll be there for you).

lol
thsi happens to me alot. ill be nice to a girl and after awhile theyll like start talking to a new kid and ignore me.
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Postby V on Fri Sep 05, 2008 5:31 am

CIRCUITzach wrote:lol
thsi happens to me alot. ill be nice to a girl and after awhile theyll like start talking to a new kid and ignore me.

Or you get so close that you are honored to be the one they run to tell when they like someone.
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Postby adrianSum on Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:02 am

V wrote:
CIRCUITzach wrote:lol
thsi happens to me alot. ill be nice to a girl and after awhile theyll like start talking to a new kid and ignore me.

Or you get so close that you are honored to be the one they run to tell when they like someone.

and then you feel like shit
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Pedro on Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:05 am

Tell her when she's done with him, you're next right away.
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Peterr on Fri Sep 05, 2008 11:46 pm

V wrote:You can come to our brand new TNS Shelter for perverts.

Please join, me and tom are getting lonely... :cry:

But i would keep it up. Look at it this way, if he ends up beating the shit out of you (I hope he doesn't but...) Study Hall Girl will be mad at him and feel bad for you. Causing her to breakup with him and get you your girl.


But don't go get yourself into trouble!


So what i'm saying is, just keep it up! But i would wait a little bit, maybe you'll get dealt the right cards.
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby budgie on Sat Sep 06, 2008 12:42 am

im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Bobbyjames on Mon Sep 08, 2008 7:17 pm

budgie wrote:im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?


become gay? all gays seem to be best mates with girls. lol
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Postby budgie on Mon Sep 08, 2008 8:28 pm

bobbyjames wrote:
budgie wrote:im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?


become gay? all gays seem to be best mates with girls. lol

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Postby Bobbyjames on Mon Sep 08, 2008 8:38 pm

bobbyjames wrote:
budgie wrote:im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?


become gay? all gays seem to be best mates with girls. lol


its how i pulled Jordan, so it works :winkwink:
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Druska on Mon Sep 08, 2008 10:39 pm

bobbyjames wrote:
budgie wrote:im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?


become gay? all gays seem to be best mates with girls. lol

wanna know why-???
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Postby Bobbyjames on Tue Sep 09, 2008 8:48 am

Still Waiting wrote:
bobbyjames wrote:
budgie wrote:im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?


become gay? all gays seem to be best mates with girls. lol

wanna know why-???


dunno, maybe girls feel less threatened by gay guys? they know the guy hasn't got the thought of sex running through their mind everytime they talk? they both like willy's?
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Re: it's happening again!

Postby Druska on Tue Sep 09, 2008 9:18 am

bobbyjames wrote:
Still Waiting wrote:
bobbyjames wrote:
budgie wrote:im not gonna try anything for a few weeks, at least.
as far as i know, shes pretty happy going out with him.
but, to complicate things a bit more, one of her friends told me that they weren't boyfriend and girlfriend, just god friends. :confused:

any tips on keeping an inter-gender relationship without sexual tension?


become gay? all gays seem to be best mates with girls. lol

wanna know why-???


dunno, maybe girls feel less threatened by gay guys? they know the guy hasn't got the thought of sex running through their mind everytime they talk? they both like willy's?

bingoooo!!!
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