what should I do if my friend wants to commit suicide?

ReemFTW · Post by **ReemFTW** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 8:10 pm

EDIT: Old, and too personal. She's fine now.
Thanks for the help, you guys ^^

CIRCUITzach · Post by **CIRCUITzach** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 8:25 pm

have her run away and move in with you

ReemFTW · Post by **ReemFTW** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 8:28 pm

^I thought of that, but my parents aren't exactly what you would call 'understanding' ><
thanks for trying anyway

CIRCUITzach · Post by **CIRCUITzach** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 8:32 pm

um if u got jobs or watever and have money rent a palce for a while untill shit cools down

Post by **Druska** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 8:56 pm

i can understand her,my granma,aunt, the whole paternal family are ultra catholic i dont give a shit bout religon they got mad when i told them

wiggs1441 · Post by **wiggs1441** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 9:08 pm

^ exacto

Shiv · Post by **Shiv** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 9:31 pm

wow
that thoroughly depressed me =(

that really sucks for her too!!

u should definately throw a party for her! just to let her know that she has friends
and try to make sure she feels socially accepted at school

(sorry for being ignorant, but are you a guy or girl?)

Gibsum 41 · Post by **Gibsum 41** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:24 pm

Still Waiting wrote:i can understand her,my granma,aunt, the whole paternal family are ultra catholic i dont give a shit bout religon they got mad when i told them

I'm going through a very similar situation S.

Back on topic, that really sucks. Just be there for her. She probably won't kill herself if she knows someone (you) is there for her and will be no matter what. Tell her to hang in there.

Bass Cone · Post by **Bass Cone** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:36 pm

Just remind her that one day she'll be able to move out and live her life like she wants to. Tell her you care about her and not to give up. One day it will all be worth it. (Even if this isn't necessarily true, just keep her thinking positive thoughts)

Post by **withchappedlips** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 10:50 pm

Tell her to do it. See what she does.

CIRCUITzach · Post by **CIRCUITzach** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:02 pm

Goodnight Nurse wrote:Tell her to do it. See what she does.

i see your a kind person

Shiv · Post by **Shiv** » Wed Sep 03, 2008 11:44 pm

CIRCUITzach wrote:
Goodnight Nurse wrote:Tell her to do it. See what she does.
i see your a kind person

i kind of agree....mostly because if she is going to do it then she will do it regardless of what her friends say

if she doesnt want to, then she will open up to reem and they can talk about it and she can be happier...i think....

CIRCUITzach · Post by **CIRCUITzach** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 2:29 am

jus tell her to look at my life and shell be like wow my life is amazing good thing im no t zach

Shiv · Post by **Shiv** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 2:36 am

CIRCUITzach wrote:jus tell her to look at my life and shell be like wow my life is amazing good thing im no t zach

Post by **Jeremy Kill** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 2:43 am

CIRCUITzach wrote:
Goodnight Nurse wrote:Tell her to do it. See what she does.
i see your a kind person

It's reverse psychology, I think.

Bass Cone · Post by **Bass Cone** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 2:49 am

Jeremy wrote:
CIRCUITzach wrote:
Goodnight Nurse wrote:Tell her to do it. See what she does.
i see your a kind person
It's reverse psychology, I think.

Yeah, but if she really does do it, you would think it was your fault.

iemnaiz · Post by **iemnaiz** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 3:57 am

maybe she's in a bad mood lately because she'sfasting? lol

Schmiznatch · Post by **Schmiznatch** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 4:28 am

Help them or ask www.4chan.org

ReemFTW · Post by **ReemFTW** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 10:14 am

hardcoresum41fan wrote:wow
that thoroughly depressed me =(

that really sucks for her too!!

u should definately throw a party for her! just to let her know that she has friends
and try to make sure she feels socially accepted at school

(sorry for being ignorant, but are you a guy or girl?)

she isn't feeling socially accepted... I'm not in her school anymore but she says so..
I'll explain in a minute
oh btw it's okay lol, I'm a girl.

iemnaiz wrote:maybe she's in a bad mood lately because she'sfasting? lol

well that's partly true, but it's not cuz she's so hungry - It's the fact that she's fasting, I mean she doesn't believe in religion [well neither do I but I'm not fasting] so she's pissed off that she's forced to do stuff she doesn't believe in. she's also wearing a hijab/a headscarf [if you don't know what that is, its that cloth muslim women wear around their head, I don't wear it.. but that's cuz my family isn't as religious as hers] which is WHY shes not being accepted socially =/

Bass Cone wrote:
Jeremy wrote:
CIRCUITzach wrote:
Goodnight Nurse wrote:Tell her to do it. See what she does.
i see your a kind person
It's reverse psychology, I think.
Yeah, but if she really does do it, you would think it was your fault.

yeah that reverse psychology thing probably won't work, besides she might take it seriously and feel hurt and actually do it ><

Bass Cone wrote:Just remind her that one day she'll be able to move out and live her life like she wants to. Tell her you care about her and not to give up. One day it will all be worth it. (Even if this isn't necessarily true, just keep her thinking positive thoughts)

yeah I told her that too, I mean once she's an adult her parents can't just lock hr up in their house =/ personally I don't believe just cuz you're related to someone by blood you have to like them or keep in touch...

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I haven't heard from her in days.. well she's using the computer secretly at school and her facebook status is always weird and depressing like 'is gone' and 'is....' it's really annoying...
I doubt she's gonna commit suicide though, I had my other friends chat with her on msn [before she was 'banned' from any communication] and evrytime someone talks to her about it she seems more convinced, besides I keep telling her that she's loved by her friends =/

thanks a bunch you guys// reem :]

Shiv · Post by **Shiv** » Thu Sep 04, 2008 11:28 am

Bass Cone wrote:
Jeremy wrote:
CIRCUITzach wrote:
Goodnight Nurse wrote:Tell her to do it. See what she does.
i see your a kind person
It's reverse psychology, I think.
Yeah, but if she really does do it, you would think it was your fault.

the main point is that if she is going to commit suicide...she will!

if she is just talking about it then u know she might or might not
if shes like "OMG i wanna die!!!"
tell her" well, why aren't you then?? Its because you know you really have purpose in life"

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