I've never like asking for help...

Omega Myre · Post by **Omega Myre** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 3:51 am

I really don't like asking for help, it's not that I'm terribly proud or anything, I'm just nervous about really telling people anything, but...What the Hell, I'll give it a shot.

So, to start off, since the day I've been born, I've lived all but 2 of the United States, 4 provinces in Canada, and lived in Greece, Russia, Mexico, Columbia, England...You get the idea, due to my father's job. Because it's sort of become common to not stay anywhere for more then 6 months, I've kind of gotten used to being around new people and making friends rather quickly. My problem is, I've learned never to get "Attached" to anyone, mainly because I know I'll be leaving again in a month or two. So, finally, we move somewhere and I let my guard down and get very close to a many people, especially one girl in particular. Unfortunately, after becoming close to her, I find out that SHE'S moving, and I'll probably never see her again. I don't know what to do now. I've developed TERRIBLE fear of abandonment issues from my life, and I might be on the verge of a total mental breakdown. If I was leaving, sure it'd hurt, but I'd get over it, I've done it before, but...Now that things are reversed...I don't know what to do.

I'm dangerously close to giving up on people forever...

Zam · Post by **Zam** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 4:01 am

My best advice is to get her email adress/AIM adress, etc. and try to get in touch with her.

Sum41fan182 · Post by **Sum41fan182** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 5:56 am

whered u like the best?

Janet · Post by **Janet** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 7:24 am

Zam wrote:My best advice is to get her email adress/AIM adress, etc. and try to get in touch with her.

i agree, maybe you will still meet her someday if you'd talk to her alot, know it's not the same, but i think there's nothing you could do about it.

Rick · Post by **Rick** » Fri Aug 24, 2007 11:09 pm

i'm selling this as a script to hollywood.

Byzzy · Post by **Byzzy** » Sat Aug 25, 2007 2:54 am

no way dude, the same happened to me when i was in the US, i came back here so i know what ya feel. Try to forget her is the best, pretend she doesn't exist

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Mon Aug 27, 2007 3:55 am

Zam wrote:My best advice is to get her email adress/AIM adress, etc. and try to get in touch with her.

Tiny *[Banned]* · Post by Tiny *[Banned]* » Mon Aug 27, 2007 3:55 am

Zam wrote:My best advice is to get her email adress/AIM adress, etc. and try to get in touch with her.

samueeL · Post by **samueeL** » Mon Aug 27, 2007 6:04 pm

Tiny wrote:
Zam wrote:My best advice is to get her email adress/AIM adress, etc. and try to get in touch with her.

Jonny · Post by **Jonny** » Mon Aug 27, 2007 6:10 pm

get her number. (if you can).