Everyone, I Got A Problem

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Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby UltraKolby on Thu Dec 22, 2011 7:44 pm

Okay, I'm going out tonight with this girl that I meet a few weeks ago. I meet her a few weeks ago with a group of friends, then I played man-hunt in Wal-Mart with her and her friends and I was on her team. Then I saw her at school and we talked a little bit, and at this point I didnt have any feelings for her. Then she started talking to me on Facebook, and started text me last week and we even hung out a few times. After talking and hanging out with, I started liking her.
The problem is that she started calling me her best friend last week and that this date is a best friend date and I want to be more than friends. I really have no idea what to do or say tonight to make her my girlfriend.
So if you all could help me, I would really like it. Please and thank you!
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby HugoDisasters on Thu Dec 22, 2011 8:05 pm

Sounds like you got placed in the "friend zone"
Well, look if she sends any signals that's more than a best friend type of thing you know.
And never make your mind up! Try to be sure and confident in your decisions and behaviour. You could always ask her as a best friend if she'd imagine you as something more... a question like this:

"Hey, what if we would take this best friend thing to another level? Would you like that?"

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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby SickofEveryone on Thu Dec 22, 2011 8:07 pm

Just tell her how you feel.

I'm not good at this stuff.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Gregorovich on Thu Dec 22, 2011 8:32 pm

I got placed in what I thought was the 'best friend zone' before I went out with my last gf. Relax, you hang out enough and she might start liking you in that way too. If she doesn't, there's nothing you can do about it.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Jeremy Kill on Thu Dec 22, 2011 10:29 pm

If she really emphasized the "best friend" in the "best friend date" then I guess there isn't much you can really do. Just go with the flow and be yourself. If you guys have a really good time then she may see you as more of a friend.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby TomiT14 on Thu Dec 22, 2011 11:43 pm

Raise your hand if the opening line of The Hell Song started playing in your head after reading the title.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby HugoDisasters on Thu Dec 22, 2011 11:53 pm

TomiT14 wrote:Raise your hand if the opening line of The Hell Song started playing in your head after reading the title.

*raise*

I thought you were saying something ontopic but then i was like, oh fuck i did that :P

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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Druska on Thu Dec 22, 2011 11:57 pm

you're fucked man
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Jake on Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:00 am

Druska wrote:you're fucked man

Figuratively, one should add.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Jables on Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:22 am

At least a girl thinks of you as a good friend, none round here really want to know me too well cos all I'm good for is a laugh and nothing more, they don't give a shit about me :suicide:
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Boni on Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:23 am

My best mate is a lassie but that only happened at our failed attempt at a relationship.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Jake on Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:26 am

Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:At least a girl thinks of you as a good friend, none round here really want to know me too well cos all I'm good for is a laugh and nothing more, they don't give a shit about me :suicide:

I have an Idea as to why.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Jables on Fri Dec 23, 2011 12:35 am

Jake wrote:
Dr. Cliterus of Ponty wrote:At least a girl thinks of you as a good friend, none round here really want to know me too well cos all I'm good for is a laugh and nothing more, they don't give a shit about me :suicide:

I have an Idea as to why.

Enlighten me.
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby FuckT41182 on Fri Dec 23, 2011 1:15 am

pay some guys to try to rape her, then jump in and beat them all heroically like a tiger, and pay some good actors so it looks like it is real, if she doesn't start liking you after that, than you have to find her boyfriend, kill him, be there for her during the mourning and use her weakness to get her into liking you ...

and if you want the easy way, tell her how you feel, and find out what kind of guys she likes, so that you know how exactly you should say it
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby ÜBERCUNT on Fri Dec 23, 2011 1:52 am

[quote="FuckT41182"]pay some guys to try to rape her, then jump in and beat them all heroically like a tiger, and pay some good actors so it looks like it is real, if she doesn't start liking you after that, than you have to find her boyfriend, kill him, be there for her during the mourning and use her weakness to get her into liking you .../quote]

damn man....that is SOME AMAZING ADVICE! Im gonna use that! :happy:
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Sum41Ant27 on Fri Dec 23, 2011 3:56 am

Well I might be late because you're probably with her right now, you're better off find out now, than waiting and becoming more of a friend. Just ask her afterwards, probably it's a better idea doing it after the "date" to see how it went. If there were no awkward moments or anything than you might have something. Send her a text, something like "Hey I had fun last night, we should do it more often!" Something along the lines of that. If she says yes, then try giving her a kiss next time you see her. NOT IN THE BEGINNING ON THE DATE THOUGH!
Every girl is different, so my advice may or may not work. But trust me don't be needy, whiny, or start say you want to be her boyfriend. That's pretty much a turnoff for every girl.
Let me know how it goes/went!! :razz:
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby sumfan4 on Fri Dec 23, 2011 4:42 am

Why is nobody's problem ever AIDS??
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby UltraKolby on Fri Dec 23, 2011 6:48 am

Thank you everyone for the all the wonderful advice. The bad part was that we didnt go on a date, she was shopping all day and was too tired to go anywhere but I hung out with her and a few friends all night. So we are going out next Wedesday
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Mitchell on Fri Dec 23, 2011 8:36 am

sumfan4 wrote:Why is nobody's problem ever AIDS??

Cause nobody has had sex with you
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Re: Everyone, I Got A Problem

Postby Gregorovich on Fri Dec 23, 2011 10:31 am

blackhawk1105 wrote:
sumfan4 wrote:Why is nobody's problem ever AIDS??

Cause nobody has had sex with you

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