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Fucked up shit

Postby Shelley41 on Sun Nov 21, 2010 7:52 am

Okay right now i could scream my lungs out.
I went to my (ex) boyfriend yesterday to break up. Here's how it went:

I: I uh.. want to break up with you.
He: WHY?!
I: We're just too different
He; WHY?!
I: Well, we never agree about anything, we have loads of discussions and it's just not gonna work this way.
Silence...
I: What are you thinking right now?
Nothing
I: Would you like to say anything?
He; Yeah
Silence
I: You can say everything
Silence

And the silence went on quite a long time. Then he suddenly stood up and he said: I got to show you something.
And he went on his laptop and he started searching in his computer for god knows what and he didn't say anything about the break up anymore.

He showed absolute no emotion the whole time I talked to him.

My mom went to get me to also say goodbye to his parents. So I went downstairs to my mom. But R didn't go downstairs. My mom & I had to go because it was getting pretty late. R's mom called for him saying: are you gonna come downstairs? And he said: WHY WOULD I ?! His mom called him again: ''Don't you wanna say goodbye to Shelley?'' No response. Then me & my mom left.

In the car back home I got this very hateful text of him:
''Bitch. Well, I wasn't that very much in love with you anymore. So one problem less.'' And after that a sentence he got from a very popular show: ''You can have greetings from Brabant, CUNT.'' (brabant is where he lives)

I kind of expected him to react like this, but it still hurts. Although I am very mad at him I didn't want it to end like this.

And I just checked my MSN because I expected a hateful MSN offline message. And yes, there it was. Something with the words: whore, emo and anorexia.

Oh man, I feel angry & sad at the same fucking moment.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Janet on Sun Nov 21, 2010 10:45 am

Well, if you were unhappy being with him then it was bound to happen. It was good that you broke up with him face to face, though, instead of hiding behind a text. Give him time, if he's sending you messages like this then it means he still cares and he's hurt. Then try and explain him why you left him, that is if he's willing to listen to you, I'm sure that finally he'll see that it was the best thing to do. I guess his aggressive reaction was because he found it to be a personal assault against him, not because you were unhappy with this relationship.

Or I don't know, doubt that this helps, but good luck!
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby FuckT41182 on Sun Nov 21, 2010 1:34 pm

most of the people start relationships and they do not really know each other... :P and this is the result ...
This is Mark Allen Hoppus. He likes long walks on the beach. This, this is travis barker. He likes to be read poetry just before sunset. And me, I like to stick small pieces of furniture up my butt.
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Mark: Sometimes when I talk in 3rd person i end up calling tom mark
Tom:Yea than he starts touching me and i think thats masturbation
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Shelley41 on Sun Nov 21, 2010 3:00 pm

FuckT41182 wrote:most of the people start relationships and they do not really know each other... :P and this is the result ...


Exactly.

The only thing we had in common was Sum 41. But seriously, that was the only thing!
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Mitchell on Sun Nov 21, 2010 5:04 pm

In the car back home I got this very hateful text of him:
''Bitch. Well, I wasn't that very much in love with you anymore. So one problem less.'' And after that a sentence he got from a very popular show: ''You can have greetings from Brabant, CUNT.'' (brabant is where he lives)


I also noticed some fucked up messages on hyves
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby samueeL on Sun Nov 21, 2010 7:24 pm

Hmh sorry to hear that. Sucks. Txt him that he has the smallest penis evah!
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby FuckT41182 on Sun Nov 21, 2010 7:48 pm

smaller than me ???
This is Mark Allen Hoppus. He likes long walks on the beach. This, this is travis barker. He likes to be read poetry just before sunset. And me, I like to stick small pieces of furniture up my butt.
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Tom:Yea than he starts touching me and i think thats masturbation
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Heather on Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:21 pm

damn, I mean the guy didn't have to go all ballistic with name calling. You can tell someone how you feel without all that.
Sorry to hear it ended so badly...time for Pieces
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Mitchell on Sun Nov 21, 2010 8:50 pm

Sorry to hear it ended so badly...time for Pieces


Exactly what I was thinking
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Boni on Sun Nov 21, 2010 9:23 pm

Breaking up is never easy. Don't let it get to you. Just anger really.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Shelley41 on Sun Nov 21, 2010 10:13 pm

blackhawk1105 wrote:
In the car back home I got this very hateful text of him:
''Bitch. Well, I wasn't that very much in love with you anymore. So one problem less.'' And after that a sentence he got from a very popular show: ''You can have greetings from Brabant, CUNT.'' (brabant is where he lives)


I also noticed some fucked up messages on hyves


Yeah I laughed at those.. Just very pathetic.
I got another text this morning
And two times this afternoon.
One with just; whore
and the other one with just; emo

I thought they were rather funny. This way it's way easier to get over him.

And yes, Pieces kind of fits right now. But I don't wanna feel sad, I wanna feel happy that it's over. And I am happy. Relieved is the word maybe.

Thanks for your sympathy guys.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Bobbyjames on Mon Nov 22, 2010 10:03 am

this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Jake on Mon Nov 22, 2010 10:52 am

Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.

no one is as childish as you.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Mitchell on Mon Nov 22, 2010 11:00 am

Jake! wrote:
Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.

no one is as childish as you.


Well I might be a contender...
You should make a new TNS award 'Most childish member'
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Jake on Mon Nov 22, 2010 12:55 pm

blackhawk1105 wrote:
Jake! wrote:
Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:this guy sounds nearly as childish as me.

no one is as childish as you.


Well I might be a contender...
You should make a new TNS award 'Most childish member'

We'd call it the "Bobbyjames Award"
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Bobbyjames on Mon Nov 22, 2010 2:58 pm

an award named after me, that's when you know you've hit the big time.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Tyler. on Tue Nov 23, 2010 2:39 am

just abuse him or something

it's so much worse when you know each other better than anyone yet someone stil has to break up the relationship.
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Mr-David-Blues on Tue Nov 23, 2010 8:19 am

sounds like hes really gutted and is hiding his emotions with anger
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Janet on Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:07 pm

Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:an award named after me, that's when you know you've hit the big time.

it also kind of predicts who's getting it
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Re: Fucked up shit

Postby Bobbyjames on Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:24 pm

Janet wrote:
Bobby Skumfuk James wrote:an award named after me, that's when you know you've hit the big time.

it also kind of predicts who's getting it


as it's named after me, Jake will ensure I won't win it. he's a bully like that.
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