so i've been going out with this girl for like 3 weeks. we talk every night, and the few dates that we've legit been on she's had lots of things in similar with me. after all our encounters (about 4-5 of em), we've hugged, but tahts about all i've gotten.
then i asked her if she wanted to make the relationship "facebook official", to which she said that she wanted to talk to me in person. after that, we continued to talk like normal, but still.....gah wtf does that mean?
we're both goin to seperate colleges in the fall... which i think is why she doesnt want to get serious with me
You could try some of this if you havn't and wanna find out.
Make sure she is into you and not busy with someone else.
Keep going don't hurry it up, she might have been in a relation just before you?
Make it clear to her that you're intressed in her, not just as a friend.
and be abit busy so she have to contact you, then you will know if she needs you =)
spreyye wrote:You could try some of this if you havn't and wanna find out.
Make sure she is into you and not busy with someone else.
Keep going don't hurry it up, she might have been in a relation just before you?
Make it clear to her that you're intressed in her, not just as a friend.
and be abit busy so she have to contact you, then you will know if she needs you =)
good luck ;)
1. not busy with anyone else... trust me
2. no relationship before me... im assuming lol. she isnt the type that really goes out
3. yea i've asked her out and we've gone out a couple times
4. if im busy she doesnt really get in contact with me anyways
But seriously, why does everyone need to go fast in relationships?
It'll come eventually. Just bask in the thought of having a girlfriend.
I think too many people take this fact for granted.
But seriously, why does everyone need to go fast in relationships?
It'll come eventually. Just bask in the thought of having a girlfriend.
I think too many people take this fact for granted.
cuz like shes goin to college soon. idk, i wanna stay with her, but i dont know if she wants to stay with me
yea, you'll want to be going to college single, but by the sounds of it you really like this girl, so you wanna make the most of the time you have with her now. there is no point in getting into a heavy relationship with this girl if you are both elaving for college soon. have you told her exactly how you feel about the situation? it could work trying to talk to her about it, or it could back fire on you where she might get scared of a relationship and run a mile. sounds like a tricky situation if you ask me.
if you ask Bobbyjames, he'd tell you to bang this bitch and not pay.
bobbyjames wrote:yea, you'll want to be going to college single, but by the sounds of it you really like this girl, so you wanna make the most of the time you have with her now. there is no point in getting into a heavy relationship with this girl if you are both elaving for college soon. have you told her exactly how you feel about the situation? it could work trying to talk to her about it, or it could back fire on you where she might get scared of a relationship and run a mile. sounds like a tricky situation if you ask me.
if you ask Bobbyjames, he'd tell you to bang this bitch and not pay.
but im not gonna be a dbag like that. i've told her that we've gotta talk, and maybe we'll clear some things up today
i'll post back with what happens, if anyone's interested
yea basically shes like
"i like you a lot, but i dont really wanna be in a relationship in college"
so basically when she leaves (which is like 2 weeks) then we've not goin out anymore
